Our First Rwandan Wedding

 We gathered at school where the ladies got help getting dressed in our
imishanana. 

 We didn't leave until the groom called to say we should head to the event, so there was time for photos.

Sweet Presley draws a crowd. One of the gals in our van told us that people were saying in Kinyarwanda, "Come and see a really cute kid." And they did.

Presley wasn't sure what to think of all that attention.

Waiting...

 Things are about to get started. This is the groom and our friend Jill. 

He calls her Mama Jill and asked her to stand in as one of his family members for the wedding.

Let the festivities begin!

This is the gusaba - the dowery ceremony.

 We were in the groom's tent.
Jeph (the groom) is the one holding the furry cane. 

The bride's tent is on the opposite side,
so that each group is facing the other.

Two guys with microphones did a lot of talking.

Somehow, we ended up in the front row for awhile. That meant we got soda.

Now it is time for negotiations.

  Instead of cows, the groom gave the bride's family an assortment of yard tools, a big orange tub, and a brand new large jerry can. It's yellow. Jerry cans are used here by people of all ages. You can see even the smallest children carrying water in them to take home to their families.  

Now a "herdsman" from each party goes out to inspect the "cows" together.

 The herdsmen come back and sing about how great the cows are.

There was a lot of joking and laughter, but there was also a moment of making the bride feel guilty for leaving her family. Traditionally, the Rwandese bride is not supposed to show emotion during the ceremony. Our bride was teary, just for a little bit.

The groom had a few tears too, especially during this song.
Have a listen. You might love it.

We made it through our first gusaba.

Congratulations Jeph and Esperance!

Sorwathe Tea Plantation

  SO (society), RWA (Rwanda), THE (tea) - SORWATHE
 

 We visited the tea plantation with friends and had a fabulous time!

People along the way.

Sorwathe Plantation grows somewhere around 668 acres of tea.
Sorwathe Factory produces 15-20% of the tea in Rwanda.

 

Almost there.

 

Welcoming decor on the beds.

Views from the guest house balcony.

















Next order of business... hiking through tea leaves

 

It was difficult to climb with kids on our backs.
Plus, we were a bit nervous about snakes... but we never saw one.

Tea Time.

Then, we went exploring the property...all kinds of beautiful flowers to enjoy.

 

 

Aloe Vera Plant

Dinner

Play Time

Bed Time

DAY 2

 

 Off to the factory tour

 

 Unloading tea leaves

 

Hats and lab coats to protect the tea

Aren't they dashing?

So stylish.

           Once the tour began, no cameras were allowed. 

We learned about different methods of producing tea - orthodox and non orthodox. We sampled green tea, black tea, white tea, silver tips... The factory was warm and odoriferous. 

Our kids were definitely ready to be done by the end of the tour.

The boiler that provides power for the factory.

Tea production chart by year. Notice how in 1994 (the year of the genocide) only 424 kilos were produced, compared with 1 and 2 thousand kilos on the years before and after. In Rwanda, we are constantly reminded of the dark history the people endured 20 years ago.

                            

 We purchased some tea and then it was time to go.

In his book Shake Hands With the Devil, Rome`o Dallaire shares that Sorwathe was a haven for him when he was in Rwanda during the genocide.

On the other hand, he remembers this river being full of bodies - an atrocious thought.

How different and beautiful it is in times of peace.

 May God continue to bless Rwanda as she rises.